<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post801012567137215269..comments</id><updated>2010-05-08T21:17:01.873+07:00</updated><category term='Menulis'/><category term='Google Maps'/><category term='E-Commerce'/><category term='Korea'/><category term='Twitter'/><category term='Teknik'/><category term='Email'/><category term='Korupsi'/><category term='China'/><category term='Inspirasi'/><category term='BCA'/><category term='Amazon'/><category term='Aburizal Bakrie'/><category term='Review'/><category term='eBay'/><category term='Penipuan'/><category term='3G'/><category term='Bahasa'/><category term='Adsense'/><category term='Advertorial'/><category term='Siddhartha Gautama'/><category term='Sholat'/><category term='Hotel'/><category term='NPWP'/><category term='Profile'/><category term='Link Exchange'/><category term='Kartu Kredit'/><category term='Marketing'/><category term='Telkomsel'/><category term='BNI'/><category term='Pareto'/><category term='Rupa-rupa'/><category term='Sapardi Djoko Damono'/><category term='Ngemplang'/><category term='Mobile Broadband'/><category term='Facebook'/><category term='News'/><category term='simPATI freedom'/><category term='Trend'/><category term='PLN'/><category term='Medical'/><category term='Travelling'/><category term='Speedy'/><category term='Internet'/><category term='Komputer'/><category term='Gadget'/><category term='Opini'/><category term='Hendrik Lim'/><category term='Rhenald Kasali'/><category term='Pembajakan'/><category term='J.CO'/><category term='Autoresponder'/><category term='Design'/><category term='Tips'/><category term='BlackBerry'/><category term='Lumpur Lapindo'/><category term='Google'/><category term='Komunikasi'/><category term='Fadel Muhammad'/><category term='Goenawan Mohamad'/><category term='Bob Sadino'/><category term='AQUA'/><category term='Mahatma Gandhi'/><category term='Review Iklan'/><category term='SEO'/><category term='Kritik'/><category term='Asuransi'/><category term='Dahlan Iskan'/><category term='Keperawanan'/><category term='SMS 2.0'/><category term='Perpisahan'/><category term='Paypal'/><category term='Blog'/><category term='Thailand'/><category term='Pajak'/><category term='Curhat'/><title type='text'>Comments on DIPTARA blog: 3 Cara Elegan Memberikan Komentar Kritik Pada Blog...</title><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.diptara.com/feeds/801012567137215269/comments/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html'/><author><name>Joko Sutarto</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00157820065225318820</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='25' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rrB9vP2rW-k/Szbw7YtSv5I/AAAAAAAAApE/aWqaQWL7aIU/S220/avatar+new.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>6</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-6359441691194536438</id><published>2010-05-08T21:17:01.861+07:00</published><updated>2010-05-08T21:17:01.861+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Emangnya kue, pakai bahan pengawet segala? He....H...</title><content type='html'>Emangnya kue, pakai bahan pengawet segala? He....He.... Tapi memang bener, enak yang alami-alami aja.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/6359441691194536438'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/6359441691194536438'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html?showComment=1273328221861#c6359441691194536438' title=''/><author><name>Jokostt</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00157820065225318820</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='25' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rrB9vP2rW-k/Szbw7YtSv5I/AAAAAAAAApE/aWqaQWL7aIU/S220/avatar+new.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-801012567137215269' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/posts/default/801012567137215269' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-204638419'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-3510932295383783521</id><published>2010-05-08T21:05:31.689+07:00</published><updated>2010-05-08T21:05:31.689+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Ada gak ya komentar yang alami, tanpa bahan pengaw...</title><content type='html'>Ada gak ya komentar yang alami, tanpa bahan pengawet ? hihihihi</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/3510932295383783521'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/3510932295383783521'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html?showComment=1273327531689#c3510932295383783521' title=''/><author><name>Lintang</name><uri>http://poconggaul.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-801012567137215269' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/posts/default/801012567137215269' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1272699666'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-1861299485487640764</id><published>2010-05-08T19:50:51.548+07:00</published><updated>2010-05-08T19:50:51.548+07:00</updated><title type='text'>&lt;b&gt;Yuda&lt;/b&gt;: Kata-kata delete bagi saya, entah ken...</title><content type='html'>&lt;b&gt;Yuda&lt;/b&gt;: Kata-kata delete bagi saya, entah kenapa rasanya kurang enak aja didengar. Jika kita ingin selektif terhadap komentar, pilihan moderasi sebetulnya lebih tepat daripada muncul dulu komentarnya baru kemudian didelete. Komentar negatif sebenarnya tantangan buat blogger seperti kita, Mas Yuda.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Anis Fahrunisa&lt;/b&gt;: Benar, Mas Anis. Apa yang saya tulis dalam artikel ini pernah saya praktekkan di blognya Mas Anis. Anggap saja komentar saya itu sebagai beta testernya dari artikel ini. He...He....</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/1861299485487640764'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/1861299485487640764'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html?showComment=1273323051548#c1861299485487640764' title=''/><author><name>Jokostt</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/00157820065225318820</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='25' height='32' src='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_rrB9vP2rW-k/Szbw7YtSv5I/AAAAAAAAApE/aWqaQWL7aIU/S220/avatar+new.jpg'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-801012567137215269' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/posts/default/801012567137215269' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-204638419'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-2929170015514451994</id><published>2010-05-08T14:55:06.277+07:00</published><updated>2010-05-08T14:55:06.277+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Sama halnya dengan Mas Joko, saya orang yang tidak...</title><content type='html'>Sama halnya dengan Mas Joko, saya orang yang tidak suka berkonflik, meskipun bukan berarti saya anti kopmetisi. Konflik bersifat saling mengalahkan. Sedangkan kompetisi berko-eksistensi dan tidak selalu harus ada yang kalah (&lt;i&gt;win-win solution&lt;/i&gt;) &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Ketiga cara yang ditawarkan Mas joko ini sebenarnya bisa dilakukan secara serempak dan ini saya kira paling fair. Model komentar ini sudah dicontohkan sendiri oleh Mas Joko ketika mengkritik salah satu posting saya yang terlalu panjang. Saya pun merasa nyaman membaca kritikan tersebut, dan lebih memahaminya sebagai saran seorang kawan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Saya pernah membaca sebuah teori dalam komunikasi, bahwa &amp;quot;Orang-orang yang peduli akan relationship (atau dalam bahasa kita mungkin silaturahim), cenderung &lt;b&gt;berkomunikasi lebih baik&lt;/b&gt; ketimbang mereka yang tidak mempedulikannya.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Bukankah kita bisa menilai keluhuran budi seseorang dari tutur bahasanya? :)</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/2929170015514451994'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/2929170015514451994'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html?showComment=1273305306277#c2929170015514451994' title=''/><author><name>Anis Fahrunisa</name><uri>http://jabarview.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-801012567137215269' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/posts/default/801012567137215269' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-553534241'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-6529418575959083709</id><published>2010-05-08T14:00:42.562+07:00</published><updated>2010-05-08T14:00:42.562+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Wah..kalau saya perhatikan akhir-akhir ini para so...</title><content type='html'>Wah..kalau saya perhatikan akhir-akhir ini para sobat senior saya lagi focus pada topik &amp;quot;komentar&amp;quot;, tapi it&amp;#39;s OK karena saya juga demikian (lol).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;b&gt;Sedikit menggaris bawahi topik ini:&lt;/b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. Saya perhatikan para pengomentar seperti itu memiliki gelar yang cukup keren, &lt;b&gt;M.B.A&lt;/b&gt; (Master of Blogger Anonymous) lulusan Universitas Kamuflase. Masih lebih baik komentar yang sering saya terima via email, pedas tapi jantan dan tidak bermaksud mempermalukan.&lt;br /&gt;2. Ketiga cara elegan itu, saya pikir sangat tepat karena dapat mengantisipasi penulisan &lt;a href="http://www.linksukses.com/2010/03/komentar-yang-dapat-merusak-reputasi.html" rel="nofollow"&gt;Komentar yang dapat merusak reputasi&lt;/a&gt;. Bernar kan Mas Joko?&lt;br /&gt;3. Banyak Blogger yang sengaja menghapus komentar yang mereka nilai kurang baik, padahal menurut saya sepedas apapun, sejelek apapun secara etika kita tidak boleh menghapus komentar, kecuali....sebelumnya kita beritahu aturan mainnya melalui halaman TOS dan Pivacy Policy atau di tempat lain sebagai notifikasi.</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/6529418575959083709'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/6529418575959083709'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html?showComment=1273302042562#c6529418575959083709' title=''/><author><name>Yuda</name><uri>http://www.linksukses.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-801012567137215269' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/posts/default/801012567137215269' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1213571280'/></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-2168172049953551923</id><published>2010-05-08T11:35:03.404+07:00</published><updated>2010-05-08T11:35:03.404+07:00</updated><title type='text'>Berkunjung menjalin relasi dan mencari ilmu yang b...</title><content type='html'>Berkunjung menjalin relasi dan mencari ilmu yang bermanfaat. Sukses yach ^_^ Salam dari teamronggolawe.com</content><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/2168172049953551923'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/801012567137215269/comments/default/2168172049953551923'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html?showComment=1273293303404#c2168172049953551923' title=''/><author><name>Team Ronggolawe</name><uri>http://www.teamronggolawe.com</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img1.blogblog.com/img/blank.gif'/></author><thr:in-reply-to xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0' href='http://www.diptara.com/2010/05/3-cara-elegan-memberikan-komentar.html' ref='tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4298335114044558905.post-801012567137215269' source='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/4298335114044558905/posts/default/801012567137215269' type='text/html'/><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='blogger.itemClass' value='pid-1601638230'/></entry></feed>
